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Happy Tuesday, My Lovelies!  

Today I'm sharing my Welcome Fall Tablescape with thirteen other designers/bloggers.  I can't wait to see their creative tables, and I hope you will use the links at the bottom of this post and visit all the blogs participating.  If you're blog hopping in order, then you have just left the My Thrift Store Addiction.  I'm Ricki Jill: Welcome to my blog!  

I would like to thank Rita from the Panoply blog for hosting these super-fun hops.


 
Thank-you so much, Rita, for hosting and keeping us all on track!

I entitled my post "Plum Assignment" as a nod to back to school and the predominate color in my tablescape.  Welcome to our dining room!  Come on in!


The plum MacKenzie-Childs pumpkins are the inspirations for the table.  You can see them on the Welsh Cupboard on the right.  I thought the purple would be a nice compliment to our yellow walls.


If you notice, there are two different floral arrangements on the table.  I was not as enamored with the first one, and I like the yellow and plum mums in the second one.  I love chrysanthemums, and they are fall's most prolific flower.





I have the table set for breakfast.  I love how the morning sunlight streams through our windows in this room during late summer and early fall.



We normally have fruit and breads on the weekends.
I have a couple of favorite bakeries for sourdough breads and pastries.



Since my husband's family is British, we drink lots of tea.
I always put honey in my tea for my allergies.




Here are my platestacks.
I'm featuring botanical Italian-made plates and mugs from Terrain.
I matched MacKenzie-Childs dinner plates to them and used them as chargers.




Table runner, botanical plates and mugs, hurricane, and ceramic tray:  Terrain

Placemats and coasters:  World Market

Butter boat, tea kettle, chargers, small loaf pan, honey pot, jam pot, pumpkins, vase, and pitcher:  MacKenzie-Childs

Ruffled plaid napkins:  Green Row

Flowers:  Trader Joe's 

Autumn artwork in first graphic:  Freebie from The Graphics Fairy 

Links for Blog Hop Party





Thank-you so much for reading my blog!  Mantel and Table is next!

Until next time...

Happy fall, y'all!
Ricki Jill


Welcome Fall Tablescape: Plum Assignment

Tuesday, September 1, 2026


Happy Wednesday, My Lovelies!   On today's What I'm Reading Wednesday post I'm sharing The Happiness Crisis by Jonathan Eckert.  Although this book is written with the younger generation in mind (a super read for parents and grandparents), I think it would pair nicely with the book I featured this past Monday entitled Emotional Endurance.

About The Happiness Crisis: How Adversity Can Build a Resilient and Joyful Next Generation

Publisher: Thomas Nelson

Publication date: August 4, 2026

Chasing what feels easy is a human instinct—but it’s only when young people embrace challenges that they become stronger versions of themselves and lead more joyful, meaningful lives.

In our happiness-obsessed society, we can become isolated in comfort zones and overly focused on temporary pleasures. Kids naturally do the same. In our effort to protect and help them, we often shield them from discomfort. But are we unwittingly denying them experiences that will form them into strong, capable adults? Could it be that we’re training them to believe that challenges ought to be avoided, and that if they’re struggling, they’re not well?

In The Happiness Crisis, global educational leader Jon Eckert speaks from decades of experience, explaining how he has seen parents, teachers, and coaches nurture transformation in kids ages 9 to 22. With practical wisdom, humor, and real-world evidence, he’ll show you how to

  • invite young people into challenges, risks, and adventures;
  • prioritize real-life connections that show others they matter;
  • resist living in echo chambers and chasing fleeting success; and
  • welcome kids into lives that move beyond circumstantial happiness to lasting joy.

Decades from now, the most resilient adults will be the most joyful. They’ll know that joy isn’t freedom from struggle; it’s the fuel that allows them to struggle well.

Young people can begin living that way now—if we invite them to.




My Thoughts

I agree: children should be challenged and taught how to deal with life's difficulties and failures.  Not everyone wins in spite of participation trophies.  And our victimhood culture does not help children grow and flourish.  From what I have read in this book, Jonathan Eckert does have some very good practical advice and strategies that have served young people well.  He shares these strategies along with his experiences implementing them.  My two favorite chapters are "Kids Grow Up by Doing Hard Thing" and "Stop Pushing Self-Care Culture on Kids."   As a Christian, I do believe that joy should be prioritized over happiness (one of his biggest points in the book).  I'm not sure that I agree with Eckert's belief on how "true joy" emerges.  

Overall, this is an interesting book from a well-renowned educator.  If you are interested in how to help children and young adults better cope with our complicated world, you will find helpful information in this book.

About the Author

Jonathan Eckert has spent his career helping students become more of who they are meant to be. Now the Copple Professor of Educational Leadership at Baylor University and executive director of the Baylor Center for School Leadership, he first taught and coached intermediate and middle grade students outside of Chicago and Nashville. After earning a doctorate at Vanderbilt University, he served in the U.S. Department of Education under both the Bush and Obama administrations and later prepared teachers at Wheaton College. Jon and his wife, Carolyn, raised three kids and are about to be empty nesters. They are embracing Texas even if Jon still hasn’t bought boots or a cowboy hat.

Disclosure:  I received a softcover copy of The Happiness Crisis from the publisher via TLC Book Reviews in exchange for a fair and honest review.





TLC review tour schedule:

Wednesday, August 5th: @spaceonthebookcase (feature)

Friday, August 7th: @charitys.book.escapes (feature)

Monday, August 17th: @stumblingintobooks

Wednesday, August 19th: @fullybookedinkentucky

Friday, August 21st: @Mama_Coffee_Books_Cardigans 

Saturday, August 22nd: @spaceonthebookcase

Monday, August 24th: @teaandbookstoo and Reading, Writing, and Pondering

Wednesday, August 26th: The Bookish Dilettante

Thursday, August 27th: @beckys_bookshelves 

Friday, August 28th:  @charitys.book.escapes

Sunday, August 30th: @webreakforbooks

Monday, August 31st: @oilycaffeinatedmama

Wednesday, September 2nd: @danamarielovestoread

Friday, September 4th:  @charitys.book.escapes

Friday, September 4th: @kristens.reading.nook









Until next time...

Happy reading!
Ricki Jill

What I'm Reading Wednesday: The Happiness Crisis

Wednesday, August 26, 2026

 


Hello, My Lovelies!  How was your weekend?  I am currently spending time with my Little Starling, so I am in heaven!  

Today I'm featuring Emotional Endurance: Faith-Fueled Skills for Bouncing Back by Leslie M. Bosserman.  

About Emotional Endurance: Faith-Fueled Skills for Bouncing Back

Publisher: Zondervan

Publication date: July 28, 2026

Learn how to come back stronger and keep going when you experience setbacks and disappointment.

Why do some people bounce back from adversity while others stay stuck? We all face stress and setbacks, but not everyone recovers the same way. What makes the difference? Executive leadership coach, educator, and TEDx speaker Leslie M. Bosserman has spent decades helping people answer that question. Through research, experience, and her own personal journey, she’s identified the key: emotional endurance.

In Emotional Endurance, you’ll develop the mindset and skills to face life’s hardest moments and come out stronger, wiser, and more grounded. Based in psychological research and biblical truth, this practical and hope-filled guide offers a framework for building resilience that lasts. Soon you won’t just survive adversity; you’ll bounce back stronger with the skills to keep going.

Emotional Endurance offers practical tools and transformational results, including how to

  • develop inner strength and grit through six core principles and eighteen actionable skills;
  • recover from failure, turn it into a source of strength, and use it to fuel your growth;
  • build resilience that lasts beyond a single crisis;
  • access hope to heal from emotional wounds;
  • replace fear and paralysis with courage and clarity;
  • learn to manage your energy by anticipating what drains you and making space for what restores you; and
  • find strength to endure challenges by standing firm in your clearly defined purpose.

This book is a perfect gift for anyone going through a difficult season, friends facing burnout or transition, graduates stepping into uncertain futures, small groups or book clubs focused on personal growth, or leadership retreats and team-building sessions.

Real strength isn’t about avoiding hard things. It’s about moving forward with emotional steadiness when life gets tough. Emotional Endurance equips you with the mindset and resilience to keep going, keep growing, and come out stronger on the other side. Your bounce-back starts here.

Meet the Author

Leslie M. Bosserman, M.Ed., CPCC, is the founder of Lead With Intention® where she coaches and trains teams on the science of emotional endurance. 

She is a TEDx speaker, executive leadership coach, and creative entrepreneur who believes success should be based on fulfillment, not retirement.

Leslie is living her best life in Northern California, where she runs The Makers Place™, an innovative coworking space with onsite childcare. 

When she isn’t coaching, writing, or folding endless piles of laundry, you can find her enjoying the perfect cup of local coffee while parenting three young children.





My Thoughts

I think the book blurb above is very well-written and succinct.  I don't want to repeat any of it here, so I will share a couple of thoughts.  My first impression is that emotional endurance can be achieved because the six principles which lead to it each have three skills that enables the reader to achieve them.  Skills are learned behavior.  Anyone can learn a skill and be successful with perseverance and practice.  This is why I think this book is useful and should be helpful to readers.  The principle that intrigues me most is Principle Four:  Courage to Change.  We are creatures of habit, and sometimes those habits can hold us back and prevent growth from happening.  One of the skills in this section is Expand Your Comfort Zone.  I think as Christians we are often called to do just that.  At the end of each principle's section is a Reflect + Connect guided journaling activity with helpful prompts for reflection and action.  This book is a lovely resource for anyone at any stage of life who could use encouragement to let go and move forward.  I think it helps put hope into practice. 

Disclosure:  I received a hardback copy of Emotional Endurance from the publisher via TLC Book Tours in exchange for a fair and honest review.  


TLC tour schedule:

Monday, August 24th: The Bookish Dilettante – review

Wednesday, August 26th: @dana.loves.books – review

Monday, August 31st: @deannaturnsthepage – review

Wednesday, September 2nd: @reading.withrach on TikTok – review

Wednesday, September 9th: @suzylew_bookreview – feature

Saturday, September 12th: @cmtloveswineandbooks – feature

Monday, September 14th: @pickagoodbook  – review

Wednesday, September 16th: @natashasbookshelf on TikTok – review

Thursday, September 17th: @books_old_and_new – feature

Monday, September 21st: @beckys_bookshelves – feature

Thursday, September 24th: @nissa_the.bookworm – feature

Friday, September 25th: @musingsofasassybookishmama and Musings of a Sassy Bookish Mama – review

Monday, September 28th: @the.joy.within.every.page – review

Wednesday, September 30th: Laura’s Reviews and @laurasreviews_1  – review




Until next time....

Happy reading!
Ricki Jill





Bookish Feature: Emotional Endurance

Monday, August 24, 2026


Hello, Lovelies!

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