Happy Friday, My Lovelies!

I'm taking a blog break for a couple of weeks due to complications from surgery; my radiation treatments have been postponed indefinitely because I need to heal first.

I will be resting and trying to take better care of myself.  I'll be back soon!





Until next time...

Blessings!
Ricki Jill


 



Happy Literary Friday, My Lovelies!  Today I'm reviewing Rookie Mistakes: a grown-up's field guide for getting your act together by Kelly Bandas.  This is a fun book, and I've become a big fan of Kelly's Instagram reels, too.  You can follow her account @kelly_bandas and read her blog HERE.  

About Rookie Mistakes: A Grown-Up’s Field Guide for Getting Your Act Together

Publisher: Thomas Nelson (July 19, 2022)

Paperback: 288 pages

In her highly anticipated nonfiction debut, comedian Kelly Bandas uses her trademark humor to recount stories of growing up and becoming a semifunctional adult in a dysfunctional world.

Raised in a devoutly Catholic home, Kelly Bandas spent her entire childhood trying hard not to tick off “the man” or the Lord. And for the most part, she crushed it. But as she got older and began to navigate what it looked like to truly live in a world where gender roles, race, and politics weren’t always so black and white, Kelly realized that her former worldview was beginning to feel like that pair of Forever 21 jeans that used to glide effortlessly over her hips but now required a lot of stretching and acrobatic maneuvering to shimmy into place. And she’s not alone.

In Rookie Mistakes, Kelly shares stories of growing up in a church-centered, male-dominated society and how those experiences shaped and primed her for a new chapter of life. In this debut collection of essays, Kelly shares:

  • Funny, fast-paced, and uplifting stories 
  • Encouragement for women who are tired of feeling like they will never measure up—and kind of don’t want to anyway
  • Inspiration to find your voice, your power, and your people
  • Kelly shares everything from laugh-out-loud accounts of Oregon Trail-themed first kisses to heartfelt insights gleaned from navigating life as a Christian feminist doing her best not to screw up being a parent of a child with a disability, in a trans-racial family.

Rookie Mistakes is the call-to-action millennial women everywhere have been waiting for.

About Kelly Bandas:

Kelly Bandas is a writer and comedian best known for her popular Instagram and TikTok videos satirizing everything from millennial motherhood to social media culture. Her work can be found literally anywhere you have an internet signal (if your internet isn’t working, try turning off the wifi and then turning it back on again . . . or honestly, it could be your router.) Whether she’s hosting her not-at-all dorky Outlander support group or speaking up about things that really matter, Kelly’s mission is to always empower and lift up other women through community, inclusivity, and laughter.


My Review:

This book is definitely written for millennial women, so if you know one, I'm quite confident she would enjoy reading it.  However, as a Gen Xer, I loved it too, especially the part about Kelly's being a Fenway Park Ambassador as a teenager.  I really enjoyed the story about how she was forced to be Wally (Boston's mascot, Wally the Green Monster) because she came to work one day looking bad after having cried all night after a bad break-up.  She was also a ball girl in college when the Red Sox won the World Series in 2004.  Kelly was born under a lucky star!  Although not as dire as the Cubs' World Series record, it had been 86 years since the Red Sox had advanced to the series.

Y'all know that I'm a huge Cubs fan, and I enjoy how much attention the Cubs' ball boy Fabian gets during home games.  He has his own fanbase, and Jon Sciambi gives Fabian lots of airtime, and it's fun for the fans.  Kelly also received lots of attention as a ball girl, some of it good (catching foul balls and giving them to fans was her #1 job) to not so good (hit in the face with a ball, which was featured on ESPN).  I also thought it was fun reading about how Kelly and a friend were able to make it to the last games of the series and back home to Boston.  That story would make a great movie, by the way.

One touching part of the book is when Kelly and her husband Brian embarked on an international adoption adventure and brought home their third son CJ.  Kelly is the perfect mom for CJ because she is a speech-language pathologist, and he's deaf.  She shares how God moved her to consider adoption, and the ways in which God gave her confirmation that this is something he wanted for her life is inspiring.  This wasn't the only inspiring story, just my favorite.  I wish I could share every essay with you, but my post would be way too long.  This book is full of funny, uplifting, and inspiring essays.  I enjoyed them all, and I think you will, too.


Disclosure:  I received a paperback copy of Rookie Mistakes from the publisher via TLC Book Tours in exchange for a fair and honest review.



Until next time...

Happy reading!
Ricki Jill




 



Happy Monday and first day of August, Friends!

I'd like to invite you to join us for:





Please join us for a brand new guided Bible journaling study starting this week!  We will be reading and discussing Maggie Wallem Rowe's This Life We Share: 52 reflections on journeying well with God and others.  This is our third year (time flies!) for Bible study, and I hope you will consider joining us.  Please click THIS LINK for more information.





I try to start everyday with Bible study and coffee.  :D




Until next time...

Blessings!
Ricki Jill








Happy Friday, My Lovelies!  Today's Literary Friday post features This Place of Wonder by Barbara O'Neal.  It's the perfect beach read if you like literary fiction, and it would also be a great book club selection because there is a plethora of family drama in the narrative your book club could discuss for hours on end!

About This Place of Wonder

Hardcover: 316 Pages

Publisher: Lake Union Publishing (July 19, 2022)

In the wake of a personal tragedy, four women face the past, their futures, and each other in a novel of broken ties and healing by the Amazon Charts bestselling author of When We Believed in Mermaids.

When famed chef Augustus Beauvais dies, he leaves behind a celebrated reputation and four women grappling with loss, anger, pain, and the question of how the world will turn without him…

Meadow, the ex-wife with whom Augustus built an empire–and a family–still holds a place for him in her heart, even as she continues to struggle with his infidelities, which ended their twenty-year marriage. More unforgiving is Maya, his estranged daughter, who’s recently out of rehab but finally ready to reclaim her life. Norah, his latest girlfriend, sidelined her own career for unexpected love and a life of luxury, both of which are now gone with Augustus. And then there’s Rory, Meadow’s daughter, the voice of calm and reason in a chorus of discontent.

As Meadow, Maya, Norah, and Rory are flung together by tragedy, grief, and secrets yet to be revealed, they must accept–or turn away from–the legacy of great intentions and bad decisions Augustus left them. And when the circumstances around his death are called into question, their conflicted feelings become even more complicated. But moving forward is the only choice they have, and to do so, they’ll need to rely on family, friendship, and inner strength.

Set on the stunning, rugged California coastline, This Place of Wonder is an emotional, lush, and empowering story of four women finding their way in a changed world–and what a wondrous journey it will be.


My Review:

This book was surprising, and although the book blurb is very accurate, it doesn't prepare the reader for the emotional rollercoaster of grief and shocking plot points facing the four women closest to Augustus Beauvais.  Although deceased, Augustus is the most compelling character in the novel.  All four women: his ex-wife, Meadow; his current lover, Norah; his daughter, Maya; and his step-daughter, Rory are shocked that the center of their world, a robust man larger than life, died so suddenly without any warning whatsoever.  Norah, a recovering alcoholic, leaves rehab a couple of weeks early due to his death.  Estranged from her father for almost ten years because he left her step-mother, she settles into her luxurious childhood home on the beach in Central California.  She's angry that she won't have the opportunity to confront Augustus with her disappointment in him because he "threw away their family."

Meadow is an enigma wrapped-up in a mystery: There is little information on her early life.  Norah flies to California (at Augustus' invitation) to interview Meadow as a leading foodie in the farm to table movement for her dissertation.  Norah falls in love with Augustus before she even meets Meadow.  Norah's character was troublesome in my opinion because she was clearly intelligent, yet she let a much older man sideline her education and goals.  Stupid girl.  Rory was the only person in Augustus' life he didn't leave (he had left Norah with her alcoholic mother to marry Meadow).  Rory's character is not quite as well-drawn as the other three women, and part of the reason for that is the book is told in first person from the other three women's points of view.  There is a lot of head hopping in this book, but it works for the narrative.  One thing I can say about Rory is she seems to be outwardly grieving for Augustus more than the others.

The story begins to morph into a (possible) murder mystery, which I wasn't expecting, and the more I read, the less I liked the women other than Rory.  However, I did understand where Maya was coming from, and I truly rooted for her to get her act together and remain sober. Maya's struggle was a huge part of the story. The beautiful California coastline is the perfect setting for this novel.  The wildfires in the distance add an eerie and oppressive atmosphere, making the characters even more nervous and anxious as they wait for the completion of the autopsy report and police investigation into Augustus' cause of death.   

I could not put this novel down: I finished it in two days.  If you enjoy women's fiction and complicated family dynamics, then you should enjoy This Place of Wonder.  


Disclosure:

I received an ARC from the publisher via TLC Book Tours in exchange for a fair and honest review.  I've enjoyed being a part of this tour!



Until next time...

Happy reading!
Ricki Jill


 

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